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January 15, 2004
Gone

My dad died at 2:30 this morning.
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Come away with me in the night
Come away with me
And I will write you a song

I want to walk with you
On a cloudy day
In fields where the yellow grass grows knee-high
So won't you try to come
away with me

Posted by Amy at January 15, 2004 07:47 AM
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Hi. You don't know me, but I've checked out your Web site a few times. (I was linked to your Web site by either poundy.com or lose the budda. I can't remember... I found those Web sites in a search for weight loss related Web sites).

I just wanted to tell you that my sympathies are with you and your family. My father died three years ago, and it was the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I remember when my dad died -- I felt like I had died, too. In a way, a part of me had died -- it's hard losing such a big part of you, such a big part of your life.

I didn't find comfort for a long time, and it is still a daily struggle to deal with the loss. There is a good book out there, called "On Grieving the Death of a Father," by Harold Ivan Smith. I know you will have no desire to read it right away, but just tuck the suggestion away somewhere for when you might be strong enough to read it.

Once again, I am terribly sorry to hear of your father's death.

Posted by: Andrea on January 15, 2004 8:38 AM

Amy... I'm so very sorry...

Posted by: Stephanie on January 15, 2004 9:01 AM

Oh, Amy, I'm so sorry to hear it. I've lost my dad, too, and it is immeasurable, the sadness you feel when they are gone. My sympathy to you and all of your family.

Posted by: Melanie on January 15, 2004 9:16 AM

Oh, sweetie...I am so sorry. I know that there's nothing that I can say to make it easier. Just know that you have people who are thinking about you.

You don't know me, but I lost my father seven years ago this month so I've been through what you're going through. Everyone deals with things differently, but if you'd ever like to talk about it, just email me.

Posted by: Jackie on January 15, 2004 9:19 AM

I'm so sorry my sweet friend. My heart is with you.

Posted by: Tonya on January 15, 2004 9:27 AM

I'm so sorry, Amy. My thoughts are with you.

Posted by: Alice on January 15, 2004 10:06 AM

Amy, I am so sorry to hear about your father's passing. It sounds as though he was ready to go, and you must treasure that last visit with him before his stroke. I am thinking about you today, and sending you positive wishes.

Posted by: jenn on January 15, 2004 10:36 AM

Amy, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Posted by: Geri on January 15, 2004 10:46 AM

Amy, I'm so sorry. Sending thoughts your way.

Posted by: Tracie on January 15, 2004 10:56 AM

Amy I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.

Posted by: Diana on January 15, 2004 10:56 AM

I'm so sorry Amy. So very sorry. You and your family are in my heart and my prayers.

Posted by: Cindy on January 15, 2004 11:01 AM

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family on the passing of your dad.

Posted by: Elle on January 15, 2004 11:06 AM

My heart hurts for your loss. Im so sorry.*Gentle Hugs*

Posted by: Candee on January 15, 2004 1:53 PM

Amy, I'm so sorry.

Posted by: Kathy of TheHavinsNest on January 15, 2004 2:17 PM

Amy, my friend.....I'm so sorry. I hope it will help you to know there are those of us who are keeping you and your family in our prayers. May God speed your healing as you grieve this loss.
Hugs to you,
Patty

Posted by: Patty on January 15, 2004 2:46 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers. I hope that all of the wonderful memories of him and the pride and love you obviously have for him bring you comfort.
Hugs,
Lex

Posted by: lex on January 15, 2004 3:31 PM

Oh Amy... my heart breaks for you. I lost my father six years ago, and I have never been the same. It gets easier, but it profoundly changes who you are. Try to remember the joys and let yourself feel the sadness. Count on the love of your family and friends to help you through this. I'll be praying for you all.

Posted by: shannon on January 15, 2004 3:49 PM

Amy-

Accept my sympathies for the loss of your father. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

Posted by: PattM on January 15, 2004 3:50 PM

Amy, I'm so sorry. Please accept my condolences.

Posted by: AMy on January 15, 2004 5:18 PM

Amy - I am sending you a big, warm hug....and lots of love. You and your family will be in my thoughts....

Posted by: Erika G on January 15, 2004 5:31 PM

I am so sorry. You and yours will be in my prayers.

Posted by: Kim on January 15, 2004 6:27 PM

Amy, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I hope you and your family are surrounded by love and support in the times ahead...you're in so many people's thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Posted by: Kristine on January 15, 2004 6:30 PM

Tears in my eyes......so sad.
Sorry just doesn't say it, but I don't know what else does? Peace to your Dad....and you all.

Posted by: Simone on January 15, 2004 6:40 PM

I'm very sorry about your loss Amy (as well as the rest of your family). My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
I lost my father in August of 2002 and when he passed, a part of me died also. When I miss him (which is all the time), I just think of him watching over me, protecting me and looking out for me.
Please, give yourself time to grieve, cry, pray, and just take it step by step. Again, you are in my thoughts!!

Posted by: gerper on January 16, 2004 3:03 AM

I'm so sorry. Y'all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Suzy on January 16, 2004 5:24 AM

Words are not enough to say how sorry I am about your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Andy, Quinn and the rest of your family. Take care.

Posted by: Andrea on January 16, 2004 7:25 AM

Amy, I don't know what to say except that I am so, so sorry for your loss. Please take good care of yourself and lean on the strength of your family and friends.

Posted by: Heather on January 16, 2004 9:15 AM

Amy, you don't know me, but I read your journal off and on (and was so happy to see that you'd started updating again!) and have a son that's around Quinn's age. I was so sorry to hear about your father. I lost my own dad almost 6 years ago and I still remember it as if it were yesterday. I wish my son had gotten to know him, but at the same time, I can't imagine explaining death to him.

Big hugs to you and yours. I'm thinking of you.

Posted by: Barbara on January 16, 2004 11:16 AM

Oh, Amy, I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug, and I wish it could be a magical big hug that would actually make any small part of this any better. I'm so sorry about your dad.

Posted by: jessamyn on January 16, 2004 11:56 AM

Amy--so sorry for your loss of your dad. Peace to him and you, Andy, and Quinn. Take care of yourselves.

Posted by: Posey on January 16, 2004 1:14 PM

I'm so sorry, Amy. This must be so hard and I wish I could hug you, too. Take care of yourself, and you and Quinn and Andy are in my thoughts.

Posted by: Wendy on January 16, 2004 1:48 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about your father's death. Lucy and Wendell and Adam and I are all sending good wishes your way.

Posted by: Jen on January 17, 2004 9:52 PM

Amy, I am so sorry. I grew up up in Wonder Lake with your family. Mr. Coughlin not only raised your family well but he helped with the kids in the neigborhood. Thanks for writing on this site, it helps keep me in touch with my childhood. Please send my prayers to your mom and your whole family from all of us here in Phoenix.

Posted by: Jim Misiak on January 19, 2004 2:05 PM

I just wanted to say I sorry I am and want you to know that if there is anything you need please let me know.

Take care!!

Posted by: Erika on January 19, 2004 4:14 PM

Amy, you don't know me, but I just recently discovered your journal and have been enjoying reading it, particularly the Everything Quinn section. It reminds me of what my daughters, who are now 14 and 18, were like at Quinn's age. She really is the cutest bunny. I had to write to say I was so sorry to read about your father's passing. I lost my dad over 7 years ago and my mom 13 years ago. I still miss them, but know that the pain does diminish with time, and the good memories outweigh any bad, although there's no way for you to believe it at this point. I just read Andy's post about your appendectomy. That is really so much to deal with at one time. Take good care and know that you are in your readers' prayers.

Posted by: Dawn on January 20, 2004 9:57 PM

I thought I posted here but I guess not. Again, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss! {{HUGS}}

Posted by: Allie on February 1, 2004 10:51 PM
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